Chapter 55
For anybody whose once normal everyday life was suddenly shattered by an act of sexual violence– the trauma, the terror, can shatter you long after one horrible attack. It lingers. You don't know where to go or who to turn to…and people are more suspicious of what you were wearing or what you were drinking, as if it's your fault, not the fault of the person who assaulted you…We still don't condemn sexual assault as loudly as we should. We make excuses, we look the other way…[Laws] won't be enough unless we change the culture that allows assault to happen in the first place.
Rape is a bulgur crime that should not subsided.
In the story itself amber was going through marital sales and tortures plus she was raped by her uncle who disgustingly and brutally raped her.
He not only raped her but he rapper her childhood, her future, her present.
Later she had a daughter named Emma who too became a victim of marital tortures.
In both the cases the criminals were made just because of there family.
Children should be taken care and should be given time.
In case of zayn his family dosn't use to give him time, they never had any time for him, therefore he was always been away from families love and affection...
That's why in frustration he used to beat amber...
On the other hand Daniels family died due to emma's parents...therefore he doesn't used to like her.
In both the cases the criminals didn't got family love and attention...they were away from a families love...
Society is too responsible for the crime....
On the other hand uncle raped amber....that was too hidden because her aunt didn't used to understand her...
Later the uncle was sent to jail...
parents desire happiness for their children through guiding them with love, time and effort to reach success.
Sometimes parents tend to forget the most important thing which needs to be provided to children which is LOVE.
Some studies proved, that lack of parental warmth and love can make children more stressed, since parents put too much pressure on them to succeed without balancing it with affection. This can create health risks for children.
If the child has love from parental figures, they may be more protected from the impact of the abuse on adult biological risk for health problems, than those who don't have that loving adult in their life.
Love and affection help children to feel secure regardless of accomplishments. This builds their confidence and self-esteem.
So parents are prime part of a child development.
If zayn and Daniel would had gotten full parental support and guidance then they would had became a good adults and
The things that happened to amber and Emma would not had happened till.
Things would had been in a positive direction then...
Parents are responsible for shaping there kids...
Parents should teach there children about rape and marital tortures on there certain age that's prescribed and made there children a better part of society.....
Beside that rape is a loathsome crime.
It should be stopped. The pain and trauma that the victims go through is more than anything.
Then the way society treats them made the case even more vulgar.
The people who go through such kind of act should be give love and sympathy and they should be treated nicely with care.
The condition in which they come in is the most sensitive situation and they should be handled with care.
After rape not only there heart shatters, there body betray them, there friends and family treat them not nicely...
Going through all this makes a person totally shattered...so the rape victims shall be treated with utmost care...they should be handled like a breakable thing which can break if handled roughly...
The time amber was raped by her uncle..she felt helpless...her clothes were here and there...her undergarments were ripped...there were bruises on her body, many bruises....
She was left bleeding and in pain in the cold.....
There too uncle didn't stopped but he used to rape her everyday until one day the neighbours caught him and sent him to jail....her aunt never used to hear her...she was busy comforting him..
Later when she was married...the rape tortures didn't ended for her but there too she faced marital rapes...
A women is always taken lightly they are treated like puppet and are thrown later when used...
Is this society is this the way one should treat them...
Beside everything women should be given respect...and should be treated we'll...
They should be treated with care...
Furthermore...society should improve there vision in a positive way...then only the place will be a better place to live...
Moreover, people should treat people nicely and with respect not only men but women as well...
Women are always pressed downward by society and they have always became victims of the cruelty of society so the society should see men and women equally...
People should teach there children too so when they grow up as an adult they too treat women equally, there mother, their wives, their daughters..
Women too should raise their voices against the crimes..they should not sit on their houses doing nothing but suffering..
Remember...the one suffers and don't do anything is bigger criminal than the real criminal...
So at last but not the least...wimen should be treated equally and women should raise their voices...